Being a police officer's wife with 2 daughters living in a small town. Growing up in the town where we live, most of the people that he comes in contact know me or know of me. Is it normal to sometimes feel scared that somebody will come after you and your family? I usually carry a small pistol with me when he is not with us, but at times I just have that feeling that someone will come after us, is there anyway I can get past these feelings? What do you do to stop thinking the worse?